Thanks for all of the advice on my dilemma re: baby shower! I recognize that this is actually an issue with my ability to cope with social expectations, so I guess I should work on that... in better news, all of the advice really got me to thinking. Well, all of the advice and the fact that I spent any number of hours organizing the music room that will soon double as a nursery and in the process found some FABULOUS yarn! That meant only one thing. I had to crochet something. Since the baby shower was the perfect excuse, I made little baby hats!